You really can never say how an experience feels just by hearing stories about it. It's either it has happened to you personally or you have seen some other person undergoing such experience. Most times when we are privileged to go through some challenging situations, it can't be compared with how they seemed when they were just a tale, everything about our being is involved and equally affected. But really, these challenging experiences have a way of bringing us out of our comfort zone and making us stronger, more loving and wiser as we see life in a more revealing light.Have you heard success stories being told by two different persons? where one had some low moments along the way but survived and then the other person who has had it all going for him/her from the very beginning? which of the stories interests and inspires you more?
You might be going through a low moment in your life now, all efforts have seemed abortive and frustrated, calm down, be thankful for the opportunity, LEARN from it. It is a phase and it will surely pass. You would be surprised how finely remodeled you would be, your confidence and courage increases, you are much more "aggressive" towards challenges. Low moments are inevitable for great people. During these moments, our faculty works at its highest frequency, we just have to think of a way out during these periods and we always do!
You never would have known that a boss could be so humble and approachable if you didn't loose that stressful job that keeps you busy all through the week, weekends inclusive. You never would have known that "all men are not dogs" if your present guy did not jilt you for another babe thereby making you available for this other wonderful guy to ask out. You probably couldn't have had the privilege of meeting a woman with beauty and brains if your "miss world" girlfriend who only knows how to tax you for new weaves every week did not abandon you, making it possible to meet this unique lady.
Most times, the very things that bring ultimate beauty to our lives do not always come in very beautiful packages. they are hidden in seemingly unpleasant events so that when we have them, we would appreciate them better.
